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6 lady killer dating strategies to being an alpha asian male report brought to you by http www.abcsofattraction.com disclaimer you acknowledge by reading further that the views expressed throughout are solely for entertainment purposes and that apb productions inc is not responsible for your use of information expressed you are responsible for your own use or misuse of said practices now let s move on introduction whether you ve downloaded this report at rock bottom with self-loathing acting as a cancer on your happiness or simply because you want to take your game to a truly unstoppable level you ve come to the right place so let me proudly introduce you to the abcs of attraction s report on being the kind of confident high value masculine and sexual bruce lee like alpha asian male that you always knew you were destined to be herein this free report i m going to go over in mind blowingly thorough depth 6 lady killer strategies to being an alpha asian male this work represents several years of practice resulting in new pick-up methods as seen on tv that i have meticulously broken down every step of the way to ensure that you are successful after all i am an aerospace engineer but one with a special distinction i can launch an orbiting satellite just as proficiently as i can explain to you how to meet and date beautiful women my humble beginnings were as a textbook nerd but i went on to become what asianweek proclaimed on their front page as the world s greatest asian pick-up artist having trained hundreds of men who were almost exact shadows tof he anti-socialite i once was i decided it was time to put pen to paper and pass this information on so that you too can change your life in almost unimaginable ways be sure to sign up for our newsletter when you finish reading you ll receive additional free go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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training include a 60 minute advanced audio cd and free 4-week ecourse that s a $147 you receive for free i hope that you enjoy absorbing these snippets of the game which are only a preview of things to come why bother why are you here why are you sitting here reading this what happened in your life to lead you to this very point right here right now these are enormously important questions to answer because many men come to me confused as to why they are even taking the time and the emotional journey to immerse themselves in `the game do you want to have as much wild rampant sex as possible sure do you want to connect romantically with as many beautiful women as possible of course but for many men it s even more than that it s about finding the woman that you dream about every night and winning her over like you are in the midst of the most perfect movie scene ever made i ve had guys come to me with no ambition to have one-night stands because they are looking for more than that and there s no shame in that whatsoever the game is not one of numbers or bragging rights it s about having the ability to seduce any woman you want to from this very moment you will never again need to settle for second best you will have the confidence to try being in a relationship and know that if things go wrong you can fall back on the game to find someone else to fall in love with because in truth your confidence level will dictate your success rate which is probably the perfect point for me to start at empower yourself ceo of the abcs of attraction your multicultural choice in pickup dating mastery go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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strategy #1 have a game plan the abcdef model ­ understanding the basic concepts there are two models of attraction derived from my experience as a pua engineer and asian man first there is the abcs structure which is unique in its plug n play nature where we take the best parts of your personality and plug it into an intuitive structured game plan it s also unique because the abcs model is the first of its kind to utilize holistic game or the combination of inner confidence with outer game and verbal attraction to give a 1-2-3 punch other overspecialized methods can t give you this is what is taught during the abcs intense life changing and highly reviewed boot camps the other model interracial dating is based on the groundbreaking concept called paradigm shifting that i pioneered this will be briefly addressed near the end here s an overview of exactly what the abc model is all about go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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a attitude attract approach we don t believe women are stupid in fact do you really want to trick a woman into liking you instead of the real you see case studies and you ll find that as an engineer scientist i make use of science and psychology to back up my real-life experiences as a pua in the field have shown that women will judge you within 30 seconds of conversation which is far faster than the 45 seconds a man takes to judge her first the battle is lost or won before it s even fought what s your mental attitude like are you experiencing approach anxiety there s no shame in that but until you can learn to manage that fear you ll never be able to approach well getting over that fear is first step then you learn how to approach well with good results not the other way around i remember discussing this very issue with a beautiful girlfriend of mine what she said next blew my mind away i didn t realize that guys had so much trouble with approach anxiety when a guy especially an asian man doesn t approach me it s not because i think he has approach anxiety i just think he s not interested in me in order to learn how to manage your approach anxiety you need to approach women just use any kind of low-investment opener without expecting any kind of outcome you re not trying to sleep with her or go on a date with her or get number you re just being a pleasant outgoing guy approach 10 girls two to three times a week in a month you should have talked to 100 women aa will never completely go away but you can learn to manage it after all courage is resistance to fear mastery of fear not absence of fear secondly attraction happens before you approach a woman that s right you can be attractive in her eyes before you even open your mouth it s the difference between active value versus passive value similar to active income you have to work in order to make money or passive income you re making money whether you work or not it s about body language subcommunication non-verbal cues women are 4 times more keyed into reading body language than men are facial expressions fashion and hairstyle just to name a few this is a hugely important subject which i will cover more indepth later in this book but basically beginner s think what to say to the girl the average think how to say it to the girl and then the experts think where to take her emotionally and physically but that s an advanced topic for later on finally then it comes to the approach what you actually say to her i know a lot of guys want the best pick up lines and rejection free openers but those don t exist as i said before beginner s think what to say but it s how you say it that will save the day go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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think about what is going on in your life right now and make openers with them i don t believe in gimmicky routines and canned openers but here s one that i crafted from a real life experience example opener pick up line synopsis i was going to my friend s wedding in dallas and forgot to bring my suit because i was busy thinking about work so i decided maybe i could just wear jeans and a dress shirt and blazer or i could wear my tuxedo from prom that i had in storage the opener hey is it okay to wear jeans to a wedding she responds the background well the reason i ask is because i flew into town for my friend s wedding and for work but i was so busy thinking about work that i totally forgot to pack a suit so my options are to either wear nice designer jeans and a blazer or to dig up my old powder blue prom tuxedo from storage what do you think i should do transitions/open treads for her to ask about 1 weddings 2 fashion/clothing 3 faux-paxs social mishaps 4 your friend how you know the bride or groom 5 your job and why you re traveling for it 6 where you re from where did you fly from 7 have you been to san francisco before 8 if you still fit your old prom tux 9 what you were like in high school 10 what prom was like did she go to hers 11 traveling in general 12 the move wedding crasher 13 wedding presents 14 etc etc etc reasons why this is a good natural opener 1.short intriguing one sentence opener we ll help you revise yours and cut it down during the second day of bootcamp 2.real actually happened to me go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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she will ask you one or more of the above questions so if it actually is real and happening to you you ll be able to talk about it intelligently and have stories behind each one 3.interesting and girl-relevant the opening line as well as the 13 follow up points are all interesting to females example stocks computers and business may not be interesting to all girls 4.easy to follow up i have a potential of 13 or more easy to access follow up dhv stories demonstration of high value that either she ll ask me about or i ll bring up to continue the conversation b be in the moment banter buying temperature as you should know buying temperature is the woman s emotional receptivity and her level of general attraction to you the alpha asian male she is in set with at a given time to build up buying temperature you can use wit banter humor anecdotes dancing thumb wrestling cave manning fake fighting etc the idea is to keep giving her more and more reasons to become attracted to you in other words be a fun maker not a fun taker funny banter lines do you have crd what s crd caucasian rhythm disorder once you go asian you can t go caucasian once you go yellow hello c compliance comfort connect now that you have her attracted to you you want to do a few things make her invested in you taking your unquestioning lead and masculinity make her physically comfortable with you and to anchor all those feelings of intense ­ almost magical ­ attraction she has for you by being more emotionally intimate with each other all the while you are fractionating which is a complex topic but for the sake of brevity it means going deep back out into lighter topics deeper etc comfort leading questions if you could on a private jet plane tomorrow and fly anywhere in the world where would you go what makes you excited to get up in the morning if you won $10 million dollars would you spend it or do something with it good for weeding out the gold diggers go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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d dominance direct disqualify this phase of the abcs structure does exactly what it says and i ll teach you exactly how to make your target feel comfortable talking to you touching you dancing with you kissing you and everything that will happen because of that many pua s teach men not to show any form of direct interest but i think it s important you must let the target know that you are interested in her as many women are apprehensive to make the first move but you also want to disqualify at this point so you do not appear horny needy or desperate which are the 3 fastest ways to lose attraction it s 2 steps forward 1 step back look for later on in this book for ways to initiate sexual kino compliance as well as 3 ways on how to kiss the girl e evaluate extract escalate the importance of escalating from being someone who is interesting and that the target is attracted to on a friendship basis to being her partner for the night is a difference you must understand you can do all the clever little tricks and games in the world but unless you can sexually escalate her and make her hot under the collar then you are simply going to sit and become an entertainer f future fun or fake this is about more than just the obvious when most men get into the game they re looking for a relationship and if you can coax your target into your bed for the night you still don t have the foundation to base any further relationships on especially if you live in your parents basement this method is about changing your life to live it exactly how you wish to don t be a pick up artist instead be a fun up artist go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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subcommunication 101 having gone through the same learning curve many burgeoning puas have lived through i ve experimented with many different styles and field-tested countless strategies i ve done canned routines silly stuff the boring the banal and pretty much whatever was out there in order to see for myself what worked and what didn t throughout my evolution and progress one thing i ve learned is that nonverbal game is just as important if not more so than verbal game now don t get me wrong it s still essential to have the ability to not only hold down a conversation but also create and maintain attraction with the words that come out of your mouth however there s a vast untapped realm of conveying passive value and attraction through things nonverbal and by nonverbal game i include 1 body language 2 blp body language positioning an advanced abcs bl tactic with locking in isolating 3 tonality 4 social proofing 5 fashion 6 dancing 7 kino general sexual 8 sensuality escalation 9 compliance testing there are many things you can convey in a few actions and a few seconds through nonverbal game which would require more work and effort through verbal game sometimes but not all the time what you can achieve through verbal game can be done through nonverbal game and sometimes more easily and more effectively of course what you want is to have that one-two punch of being skilled in both verbal and nonverbal game but a woman s need for and expertise in decoding nonverbal cues i d recommend that once you have at least achieved some level of competence in your ability to hold down a conversation you should concentrate on your nonverbal attributes body language drills exercises 1 distance ­ a.what it means how far away are you from her do you keep your distance or do you go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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move in too close for comfort how close you are to each other can be a reflection of one s status and/or the intensity of the discussion b.exercise when you initially approach her stay a little less than arm s length away not too far but not too close when you pass the hook point slowly close the physical space and/or maneuver her into intruding into yours 2 orientation ­ a.what it means this goes back to the classic argument indirect vs direct use of body language when approaching indirect attempts to convey non-neediness and spontaneity of conversation direct attempts to convey dominance and sexual intention they both have their place in your toolbox but i wouldn t become over dependent on one or the other b.exercise indirect approaching is typically done side-by-side or over the shoulder it requires good projection and steady body language direct approaching requires slower movements as well as generally high confidence and assuredness as you re telegraphing your intent without protecting your ego 3 posture ­ a.what it means posture conveys the degree of formality and degree of relaxation sitting standing or walking do you do it slouched or upright do you fold your arms hold your drink up b.exercise throw your neck and shoulders back look down at a girl lean back on anything and everything keep your arms uncrossed drink down and hands out of your pockets 4 physical contact kino ­ a.what it means kino reflects an element of intimacy and feeling or lack thereof attraction on both your parts do you instantly touch a woman when you approach how often do you kino do you initiate sexual kino or do you hesitate b.exercise always start a conversation and approach with kino it establishes that muchneeded quick bond and lowers the barrier to further attempts make it a quick light touch in the appropriate spot in other words don t do creepy sexual kino in the very beginning 5 facial expressions ­ a.what it means women have highly developed facial recognition skills in differentiating friend from foe such as determining a potential lover versus rapist facial expressions are continually monitored and observed by the target and you re evaluated by your ability to express a wide array of emotions b.exercise force yourself to smile when you approach even if it hurts smiling a real smile versus a fake smile versus no smile makes a world of difference in sticking your initial approach continually vary your facial expressions for different emotions like surprise happiness disgust anger slyness shyness sexual excited etc in other words don t simply have a crap-eating grin on your face throughout the entire interaction and most assuredly don t have a blank expression go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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6 gestures ­ a.what it means people use hand gestures when they talk they range from gesticulating wildly like a madman to what i call the t-rex with the elbows bent and hands flapping uselessly in front of them like midget appendages to the hands in pockets for no gestures at all you should use gestures in order to make a point don t fruitlessly expend energy if you don t have to b.exercise if you find yourself moving your hands like crazy hook your thumbs into your pocket it s called the cowpoke position so when you re in set make sure to control your movements and bust out the guns when you re talking about how you caught a fish this big 7 looking eye contact ­ a.what it means do you maintain eye contact when you approach listeners look at the speaker more than the speaker looks at the listener eye contact conveys emotion and intensity signals when to talk and signals when you re finished it can also signal aversion boredom and disinterest dominants tend to maintain eye contact for longer durations a direct stare conveys openness candor and intent looking away conveys modesty humility and even fear b.exercise stare into your target s eyes when you approach her during the actual conversation shift your eye contact from one person to the other when you catch a woman giving you ai for the love of god don t avoid her eye contact meet her eyes and smile eye rolling can also be used to emphasize a punch line when you re telling a particularly humorous story and/or when you re teasing her 8 forward backward movements ­ a.what it means this can be either pecking or rocking pecking is when you move forward into your target s space back out and back inside in rapid succession it looks like you re a chicken pecking rocking is slower more emphatic and actually more inside your personal box b.exercise force yourself to stand back lean rock in when you want to whisper something into her ear lean a little forward when you shake hands don t peck and don t move fast 9 vertical movements ­ a.what it means do you draw yourself up posture when you shake hands or when you approach presenting your maximum height and physical presentation is more dominant and confident b.exercise force yourself to puff up expand your chest and draw yourself up to your full height when you approach 10 side-to-side movements ­ a.what it means you can take up space by having a broad stance leaning against something go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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and arm movements to the side there s a link between facial expressions hand movements and body movements so when one is out of sync with the other it gives off an incongruent vibe and feeling of discomfort with oneself b.exercise when you stand make sure you place your feet just as wide as your shoulders when you gesture move your arms broadly when you light a cigarette or answer your cell phone kick your arms and elbows widely up and back take up more space 11 environment tactical logistics ­ a.what it means at the tactical level of logistics the arrangement of physical objects and beings around you can greatly affect your ability to maintain control and enhance your progress b.exercise every set that you do and i mean every set have in mind a spot you intend to sit down isolate and escalate knowing physically where you want to move her means you don t have to think about it when the time comes the opportunity presents itself to you and you just naturally sit down and isolate her to the side 12 tonality ­ a.what it means universally men who have lower pitch bass talk slowly and more assuredly are considered more attractive than those who have high squeaky voices and talk fast like they re on crack b.exercise slow the heck down seriously think in slow motion hit the slow-mo button on the dvd and not only move slow but talk slow project from the diaphragm for a deeper sounding voice it s simply more masculine vary your emotional range going from high energy to low and back up to a medium level don t stay at the entertainment monkey level but also don t persist in a boring slow tonality vary your voice s energy and emotion 13 silence timing ­ a.what it means silence can create suspense tension and even peace as well as compliance test her many puas simply talk too bloody much so when you have passed the hook point try shutting up and listening to her after about 10 minutes she s already decided you re attractive so stop filling the air with all the useless noise you call routines dhvs and stories now when it comes to timing it can be a difficult subject to master comic timing with a well-placed comment can make a punch line or make you fall flat on your face b.exercise keep a mental timer while you re in set after about 10 minutes shut up ask her a comfort leading question and let her talk let her qualify herself to your and go into comfort hell do it in the middle of a story and look at her expectantly like she s supposed to make a comment comic timing can generally only be improved by knowing some c f banter lines but more importantly through practice by either field experience improv or some sort of comedy writing improv drama classes there s a lot of subtle information that is conveyed by your nonverbal communication it s one of the more underrated skill sets in the community but in many ways vastly more important go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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studies and research in the past have shown that when researchers throw in both verbal cues and nonverbal cues the nonverbal communication was four times more powerful than the verbal so start shooting from both barrels of your shotgun instead of one by advancing and learning both types of communication go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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strategy #2 building attraction through storytelling ­ when you can t show then tell first impressions are hugely important how she perceives you right from the beginning dictate the ease or difficulty you ll have to transition into the romantic stage of your relationship imagine if you will that when she turns to you she sees a pie chart you are that man pie chart and based off of how you carry yourself your fashion your hair your body language your height and race she s going to fill in some of that pie chart for herself and if you re a short chubby not-good looking asian man like myself i may get things like that i m smart educated and have a good paying job but i won t get alphaness strong or the dangerous pie slices filled in that is unless i do something with my behavior or tell her a story about myself that displays the alpha asian characteristics almost every technique that you will learn in this report will ultimately in one way or another aim to flick the multiple attraction switches on which women base their choice of sexual partner in the attraction stages men are generally focused on exterior beauty however women find power personality charm your sense of humor sexuality dominance and everything else that isn t determined by your genetics or your wallet size to be an aphrodisiac each main attraction switch looks money/power and game have multiple sub-switches that can be triggered in order to warm a woman up to you so whilst many women cannot possibly compete with more beautiful counterparts unattractive men can compete with rich better looking people before i go any further i should also mention that there is a massive difference between general attraction and sexual attraction we ll move onto sexual attraction later on in the book so for now concentrate on building sets that are interested in conversation and then add some of the material on building sexual interest later let s start by going over a few of these switches sexual safety you must show her you are safe to be with this isn t intuitive to most guys but for women it s always a concern either consciously or unconsciously rape mugging and assault are all real dangers that women face the nice thing about being asian however is that we are usually considered safe many times i ve pulled girls to my car or the hotel and go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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they simply felt safe with me because i m asian no roofies no rape just a whole lot of fooling around that may or may not turn into something else future ambitions you must show ambition motivation and/or job/financial security this goes back to my previous statement that there are three main attraction switches and job security falls under the money/power switch while ambition is more of an overriding emotion of passion and drive that s game you should be passionate about what you do or what you re striving for that s what makes a struggling artist/musician so attractive to women they re passionate about what they do and their artistic expression it s something that s also infectious and adds an element of adventure energy and intrigue to a woman s life being edgy this switch falls under the heading of pure game and being different this is where your dhvs demonstrations of high value come in remember you can t simply be unique you have to convey it you must demonstrate and communicate the uniqueness of your life experiences i convey this by being the adventurer the world-traveling playboy i talk about all the places i ve been to the people i ve met and so forth i pull them into my reality because they re intrigued by it they want to know what my reality and frame of reference is like because like the majority of females theirs are weak or they re not satisfied with their lives your life is different unique fun crazy or whatever but pull them into your life primal/sexual masculinity this is part social proof and part game it s about showing confidence leadership authority and popularity girls want someone other girls will envy and whom men will admire she wants to brag about you dream about you and at times challenge you to see if you re congruent with that frame there are some sub-switches within this that you should remember a leader of men lead your entourage show that you can befriend an entire group of strangers as mystery says lead the men and the women will follow one tactic i will do with a wingman is that if we re both in set with different girls i ll roll by and say hey man you cool you need a drink the pre-selection switch is thrown simultaneously in two sets his set thinks he s cool because he has someone with him and my set thinks i m cool because i m taking care of my boys b dominance this is actually part of sexual attraction it s about leading taking control of both conversation and physicality it s cavemanning leading around by the hand and so forth you can dominate with kino and you can dominate verbally it s also being very knowledgeable about a subject on which you can educate her now you re in the student/teacher frame and guess who the naughty student is c social proof authority this is basically knowing someone who can get you in it s go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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knowing the bouncers promoters and so forth it s being an enabler and making everything go smooth your drinks come first the ocean parts before you and so on we ll talk in more detail in the full ebook about befriending bouncers/promoters d social proof women and jealousy this is knowing women and having plenty of female friends or befriending a girl that night and upgrading with female social proof almost every single attraction pre-selection switch is thrown you re safe you re popular and you re sexual work on this skill because it can make life and women so much easier it s like walking around with a girl playing shag/marry/murder get the dvd for more secrets and to get a firsthand visual of how these secrets work buy the dvd building attraction through storytelling you can purchase the dvd at the abcs of attraction online store go to http www.abcsofattraction.com call 1-888-689-game 4263 copyright © 2010 abcs of attraction all rights reserved worldwide no part of this ebook may be copied or sold.

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