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disclaimer the original creator sheek as well as the contributors to this file do not claim ownership of the text and ideas written herein they are purely the ideas and thoughts of their creators to whom credit is given in each post the m3 model of pickup a1 s3 is copyrighted by mystery method inc the material placed in the following document has been obtained from free sources by continuing to read the document you agree that it cannot be sold or marketed in any way if you would like to have this file on your website it is asked that you link to the mystery method forum www.mysterymethod.com/forum thread dedicated to hosting this file the link is placed below http mysterymethod.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6155 all pua routines/knowledge at your fingertips by sheek this is the www.mysterymethod.com forum database for all routines techniques and tips related to pickup we hope this will continue to evolve with members adding content every day enjoy note this is a proper database file that many apuas will use to boost their game that means you need to make an effort to type your work nicely no typos use capitals et cetera i sheek periodically go through all the material in this file to fix grammar and spelling issues but it would be very helpful if all contributions are made as well-polished as possible nobody wants to read net slang and paragraph-long run-on sentences make an effort how to use new the pua writing section consists of writing ideas from the top pickup gurus the outer game/mystery method specifics section focuses on the technique and a structural method part of pickup increase your outer game to boost success and to compliment your inner game these techniques are referred to as canned material and it is recommended that you memorize routines to run in the various phases of the mystery method these are especially helpful during the newbie mission nm in which you should be using only canned routines the inner game frame section is about your mindset and personal frame as you become better at inner game routines and canned material become less significant confidence body language aspirations they re all here the other/general techniques section consists of miscellaneous material that we couldn t fit elsewhere new the fashion grooming section is composed of fashion tips general grooming advice cologne guides look for gameboy s grooming guide on the mysterymethod forums for more contributors sheek original idea material keynote file moderator tsfen material dr swift material fakename ideas arcko ideas theduke ideas katil material supa material lozang lozang s contribution section p age 1

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paradox created file tracking system the creed i make no excuses for my desires as a man i move through this world without apology i like to satisfy women i don t need any particular woman i am not needy women are abundant i do not supplicate to women because they find it unattractive rejection is a good thing the more i get rejected the more i will get laid i learn something every time every rejection becomes a brick in my palace i do not dwell in the past the past can not be relived good or bad i have a wide range of options in how i choose to react to other people the choice is mine pa ge 2

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bait hook reel release mystery how to hit on a woman you cannot indicate your interest ioi to a woman until she has first indicated her interest to you the attract stage has 3 phases 1 open to get you into her group and in front of the girl 2 f2m female to male attract to get her attracted to you and 3 m2f male to female attract to show that you have grown attracted to her for legitimized reasons assuming you have completed phases 1 and 2 its time to move onto phase 3 you may have already read about qualifying principles many concepts about qualifying are incorporated into phase 3 of mm the idea is to make a woman demonstrate a higher value to you bait her into telling you interesting things about herself not what do you do so when she replies hooking her to give you information you can ioi her reel her in only to push her off release her from the pressure of being hit on this occurs several times so the phase 3 sequence is bait hook reel release here is an example for you to use in-field right away you what nationality are you her french you seriously no way the girl i had the biggest crush on in high school was french i can t even talk to you now everytime she gives you a dhv demonstration of higher value you ioi her this way she will believe your iois and when you fully soi her she will feel like she deserves it this allows your attraction for her to letitimately grow over several minutes instead of just ioiing her because she first ioi d you since an important aspect of mm is to restructure routines to be in context with your identity in particular take the time to write up some personalized phase 3 routines with this format afterall i m pretty sure you didn t have your first crush on a girl who was french right write 3 to 5 routines right now here is one more example i used literally the night before writing this me if you could be anything in the world with no chance of failure what would you want to be and don t say princess haa her um an actress me really when i was little i wanted to grow up and be a magician and you know what i am now a magician so you want to be an actress i m living proof that our dreams can come true it would be so cool if you were an actress i love that we need to figure out how to make that happen i bet you d be an amazing actress but what if you get more attention than i i can t even hang out with you now again make yours congruent with your identity you do not have to be a magician to do mm but you do need a strong identity as i have i learned something from a good friend of mine yesterday he said you are what you repeatedly do page 5

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well i performed some magic for the woman i later met about 25 minutes after meeting her i love to perform magic and find myself doing so many times every week that makes me a magician what do you do there are some f2m routines that are exceptions to the phase 3 format such as when you are complimenting a woman s beauty but since that is potentially dangerous i ll leave anatomical compliments for another time pa ge 6

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use backstory 1 past childhood when i was a kid i wanted to be 2 how you got from 1-3 i did relating to 1 when i was a teenager 3 what you are now and now im conveys idea of when i was a regular joe now i m things to say/use can you believe it isnt it interesting that if you apply yourself to something you can do anything by mystery mystery on building an identity i read an article recently by my good buddy thundercat that said but what mystery does though teachable is very much a style tailored to mystery he is successful at what he does because no one else can really imitate him that s what makes tyler so amazing to observe tyler does the same things as mystery but without the magic tricks yet he is still able to create immense value for himself how does he do this well from what i ve gathered his method is more relatable to normal guys like me because anyone with the proper skillset can use tyler s methods to create value for themselves thundercat s misunderstanding between a person s customized style and the game plan or method he uses to systematically convey his unique personality concerns me this is because only a few days ago did we share a 3:00am meal at a diner after our visit to an exotic dance club together during our meal thundercat himself admitted that he doesn t possess a strong identity as i do i will attempt to resolve his misunderstanding between style and method as well as reveal some insights on how to specifically customize material to convey a unique identity for both you and my friend thundercat once you customize your material to fit your chosen strong identity will you no doubt make others who watch you work wrongfully assume it is your particular identity that gets you the girls and not the method that powers the conveying of it thundercat s complete article may be found here

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personality conveying material does we each possess a unique identity you are not me i am a magician my wing style is a writer tyler d is a public speaker does this mean you have to be a magician a writer or a public speaker in order to attract women of course not but what you do need is what style tyler d and i share in common we each possess a strong identity style tyler d and i have each customized our material to convey our strong and unique personalities that is in fact the purpose of personality conveying material it certainly would be counter-productive to convey that you are a magician if you aren t one nor a writer or public speaker for that matter tyler d and style use the same game plan or method that i do how do i know because we adapted my original and now out-of-date fmac method into a powerful algorithm together m3 both are former students of mine turned teachers and yes they have both taught me as much about the game as i have them since we began style lives in the same house as i and tyler d is here too visiting while we all use the same method we have customized the material so that we each have a different style in fact tyler d s style is still evolving his identity has for a long time been one with few attractive qualities a student this may be the reason why thundercat in misunderstanding the difference between method and style has concluded that tyler d s material is more applicable to normal guys than mine what this reveals please me the identity i have chosen is strong enough to confuse even a close friend what style tyler d and i do when we teach others the game is give examples of field-tested personality conveying routines to students should our students stick to this stock material forever no way what they should do is identify who they are and swap out our stock examples for customized stories from their real life as soon as possible the reason they are given examples is so that they can appreciate what constitutes a good personality conveying routine some amazing routines are thankfully generic enough to share the cube routine for instance while others must by their very nature be unique to each person like mine some of thundercat s material should possess a common theme he will use this material to draw his target into his world and not into mystery s world or tyler d s world thundercat s material must specifically suit his identity each person who uses mm will ultimately swap out the stock routines we teach them and use original material over time i am now revealing this idea outside of my private lounge for the first time here grounding how to ground your identity to your target s reality with your back-story i m sure you ve found yourself in a set and have reached the point where your target says what do you do you either give her your honest but lame answer like i m a student or i m a system s administrator or worse you try to circumvent the question entirely with i m an ass model the problem is you don t have an attractive identity or if you do it s not a strong one some guys will experiment with i m a rockstar or i m a promoter or i m a public speaker but your target will either feel you are lying in the same way we believe an actress is likely a waitress or if they do believe your evidence they become intimidated when you get weighed down by the stereotype they have of you if instead of answering her question what do you do with i m you can ground your present identity to her reality and harness the opportunity to convey a much richer personality here s how you do it instead say 1 well when i was little i wanted to be a 2 when i was a teenager happened tell stories about how you got from 1 to 3 page 8

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3 now i m can you believe it here is the applied format that i used to ground my identity to a recent hb9 s reality it helped to attract her and build enough comfort to get her back to my place not the exotic dancer but another girl 1 what do i do when i was young i wanted to be a magician 2 tell story of my first birthday party magic show and how the money was used to see a copperfield show 5 minute story 2.1 tell story of how my biggest audience scared the shit out of me and how i went up and kicked ass i really get into the fear of it all 3 minute story 2.2 talk about my first real tv experience 2 minute story 2.3 tell her about moving to hollywood and why this is a vulnerability routine in c&t stage 3 minute story 3.0 tell her what is now on my plate my wtf underground internet show my tv reality show interest the book i m writing and my seminars on various topics such as social dynamics and wealth building 5 minutes of stories 3.1 tell her what i am planning on doing next illusion show concepts publicity stunts etc 5 minutes of stories that was at least 23 minutes of story-telling and i was holding this beautiful girl long before i performed any magic the reason magic works for me of course is because i m a magician as thundercat noted in his article tyler does the same things as mystery but without the magic tricks yet he is still able to create immense value for himself this is to me compelling evidence to support that you do not need to use my style or do magic in any way to use mm tyler d performs no magic what-so-ever yet can still by sticking to the method and running his unique personality conveying material attract women like moths to a flame just don t go running around telling women you conduct workshops on social dynamics if you don t learn more about my good buddy tyler d at www.realsocialdynamics.com his close friend and business partner papa lives in my house if i just come in and say i m a magician my target really wouldn t feel that we share commonalities or lifestyle she would have to rely on stereotyping i would also not appear very humble she would feel that i m too different for her and i would otherwise over-qualify myself some women it seems would actually reject a date with george clooney because they don t understand his lifestyle they feel they lack commonality and this lack creates discomfort but what if he gave her his back-story and taught her what happened step-by-step to him to become who he is today this is the concept of grounding applied by giving my target my back-story i ground myself to her reality when i was as a regular joe so that she could see how she too could be the type of person i now am this is who i am today if only she were to make similar decisions along the way you can even later use this format to encourage your target to ground her life to you during the f2m attract phase by having her stick to the format simply ask woah back up so what happened next notice in my list of grounding stories above that the common theme is this is what lead me to become who i am today thundercat too must do this once he decides what his identity in fact is does this mean he must steal my identity to do mm no he won t be telling stories of his first birthday party magic show that would be a lie he won t talk about how he learned the secret to a card trick by beating it out of a classmate of his or how years later that classmate saw him on tv and said i can t believe your future changed that day no he won t use my specific material nor will you but both you and thundercat will use material from your own real life experiences as i do the format or game plan is the mystery method the personalized material you use to fill in the format is what constitutes your page 9

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style if tyler d for instance says i m a public speaker what does that mean to his target she can only go by an accepted stereotype and unless she herself is a public speaker commonality he needs to explain how he became one he must explain that if she did the same things he did she too would be a public speaker if he were to say i travel the world giving lectures on social dynamics he would likely over-qualify himself if he instead said well when i was in school i went to this seminar and i started to help the lecturer for shits and giggles and then i taught a little bit at the seminars he would be grounding his reality to hers he could then continue with i started traveling with them for fun during the summer and then i put together my own seminar and conducted it for the first time with the help of my friend papa it was exciting and i was nervous and on and on all the way to now i travel the world people look up to me and i make mad cash can you believe it i never would have thought i could do it if you said i d be doing this 10 yrs ago he would be grounding his reality to hers using my grounding method and his own original back-story material now how does one answer the deep question who am i a friend of mine told me you are what you repeatedly do i do magic on a regular basis i perform it almost every day whether for a beautiful woman or any other other person style writes almost every day and gets paid for it making him a full-time professional tyler d mostly focuses on conducting seminars and workshops what do you do on a regular basis besides being a social butterfly that is remember the pick-up arts exists to enrich your life not define it what stories do you already possess that convey who you have become today grounding reality is far reaching it will change the way you m2f attract f2m attract and build comfort but will not alter their basic structure it will also change the way you choose and structure routines sequence them which routines you will use and when and convey to your target the way you handle challenges in your life so this is what you must now do to improve your game 1 figure out who you are by looking at what you do repeatedly something you can say in a word or two ex magician writer toy inventor ceo hacker rock climber rapper public speaker traveler 2 come up with several stories that convey how you got from being a normal kid to doing what you repeatedly do 3 practice telling these stories to others to make the stories enthusiastic and natural credit to mystery pa ge 1 0

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neg mystery writes about neg hit theory here is how a 10 is there surrounded by friends she has put on this bitch act is she really a bitch unlikely all my girlfriends were wonderful human beings beautiful people have it easier because they are beautiful and often times have better upbringings because of it but they need to have a standard with which to uphold when all these nobody guys approach her so her values are very honed and understood when a man walks up and says can i buy you a beer she will be annoyed by this while the guy thinks he s doing something nice for her she gets this all the time she is desensitized to this you are the 8th guy today so she is very good at brushing all these guys off shit she has to be she isn t going to sleep with all of them so she may say no or act annoyed and then the guy thinks she s a bitch and walks off pissed and feeling like a failure and that seems to work sometimes when the girl is particularly in a feeling of control like in a club where she is prepared for the barrage of men it is after all something that occurs so often that when it is gone she misses it she will accept the beer and then flake the guy off hey the guys are stupid enough to buy her one she might as well take it when they take a beer from you the girl is saying to you i don t know you and i don t care about you you are just another one of those typical guys and since i dont respect you ill take the beer from you before i snub you i was with my friend diane the 10 and her cute friend an 8.5 maybe i guess a guy came up and asked i don t mean to bother you but would you like to dance with me the 8.5 not being used to this said ummm ahhh and the guy gave a puppy dog look and i was smiling at her knowing how pathetic the guy was so i saw the humor in the situation and the girl said ummm why not sure the guy said really are you sure wow i never get girls to dance with me what a pathetic loser she started talking with diane and the guy just standing there and they never went for the dance weird eh he then said to me can i buy her a beer i said you can buy me a beer but you ll have to ask her at this point i knew he was being a hassle to her she wasn t interested in the slightest and felt uncomfortable i thought is was great to see this occur in front of me it was highly educational and more so entertaining so i say hey the guy wants to buy you a beer i m getting into this now hahahaa it was great the girl goes ummm no thank you now diane the 10 says yes she ll take the beer so he buys her a beer and then he never talks to her again weird eh well that s how it went down i digressed oh well steady stream of text from my brain ill trudge on sorry reader since a 10 is so good at snuffing your approach nothing ever personal either it is a strategy that is built over years of stupid guys approaches every fucking day she will do the same to you that is why snuffing them is important you cant insult them because they are used to all the hurt guys insulting them ahh you are nothing but a bitch so this rolls off their back like water off a muskrats ass how do you snuff them without insulting them well let s say she has long nails which are most likely fake now why do 10s dress so fine if they don t want the attention because they love the feeling of control sometimes they are in a club with friends and they want to be the leader of the circle social hierarchy in primates and so she gets all the attention the guys come and buy drinks for them and she gets off on knocking the guys down its all in a days play ok so she is wearing fake nails to look even better most guys will say wow you are so beautiful boring typical and in her mind by now after years of the same shit true imagine a guy comes along and says nice nails are they real she will have to concede no acrylic and you say like you didn t notice it was a put down oh pause well i guess they still look good then he turns his back to her page 11

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what does this do to her well he didn t treat her like shit and insult her he complimented her but the result was to target her insecurity she thinks im hot im beautiful especially in that emotional state of control as in the public but i didn t win this guy over im so good at this ill just fix that little smear on my image that he has of me then you continue to show disinterest in her looks as you giveher a neutral topic like the elvis script during this her intention is to get you to become like all the other guys so she can feel in control and snuff you and you then give her another neg hit like this is that a hair piece well its neat what do you call this hairstyle the waffle smile and look at her to show her you are sincerely being funny and not insulting you are pleasant but disinterested in her beauty this will intrigue her because she knows guys and this isn t normal you must have really high taste or be used to girls or be married or something these questions make her curious so this keeps happening and is known as flirting she give you little neg hits and these tests are qualifiers you pass them by neg hitting her back after all you aren t like the others showing interest but why to get control again she says will you buy me a drink notice how she is trying to get you now but she only wants to sucker you in enough so she can snuff you that is all she is about this strategy is all she knows and it s not working for you so she is trying to do damage control on the situation but at the same time she doesn t quite understand why you don t think you are great after all her nails are fake you say ahhh thats so funny you nose moves when you speak pointing and being cute look there it goes again its so quaint hheeeee looky :d she ll say ahhh stoppp blush now she is self conscious and having her in this state is where you want her you have with 3 neg hits successfully created interest curiosity and removed her from her pedestal removed her bitch shield you were humorous you had a smile you dress well you are confident and everything she would want in a man you didn t take her shit oh and when she asked you for a beer you said no i don t buy girls drinks but you can buy me one you are qualifying her now if she buys you a beer this is symbolic of her respect for you if not you say pleasure meeting you and turn your back to her again dont walk away just turn your back you are neg hitting them again just when they thought she was negging you that is teasing each other that is the first step to flirting this is all textbook psychology simple stuff and it works enough for me to have had 58 girls in 6 years a neg hit is a qualifier the girl is failing to meet your high expectations it s not an insult just a judgement call on your part the better looking the girl the more aggressive you must be with using neg hits a 10 can get 3 neg hits up front while an 8 only 1 or 2 over a longer time you can go overboard if they think you are better than them you can drop the self-esteem right from under them just like most 10s do to guys and this isn t good you have to get as close to the breaking point as you can without crossing the line once you have gotten her right there you can start appreciating things about her never looks there is a mutual respect now something most guys never get from the girl this is how you remove a bitch shield 3 neg hits oughta do it within 2 or 3 minutes of neutral chat once it is down you can from a mutual respect place seduce her pa ge 1 2

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rapport is to many people poorly defined word i personally discard the word because of this and replace it whenever i read it with trust and comfort and yes i have a teacher of attraction considered this at length i don t want to have my students wrongly assume what something means i ve read many books on rapport so i have an understanding of several variations of what rapport means it boils down to trust and comfort this is separate from attraction which is a form of envy and curiousity if a woman learns about you and this information makes her envious of you or your situation or social standing and curious to know more she will take the time to get to know you what is getting to know it not about obtaining a quantified list of answers to standard questions its about feeling like the know you they are concerned that a they can trust that you wont make them feel uncomfortable and b they have comfort with you so not only must they have comfort with you before you can begin to seduce them which i believe begins when you make a pass which is not done when you kiss her as that is a rapport building tactic but only when you have her in a private seduction location like her bedroom or yours but you also need to provide her with enough evidence to suggest that you wont make her uncomfortable in the future so if you attract her first personality conveying then qualify her make her jump through your hoops hoop theory to qualify herself to you and then compliment her on her success in jumping through them eg you re german oh my god i love you this one came from a beautiful and intellegent that s rare exotic dancer last night so that your kino isnt seen as if you do that to everyone then you can go into rapport phase this means no more negging unless she triggers your punishment/reward subroutine as usual no more ballbusting i use that term loosely because really ballbusting is a loose term for what happens during punishment/reward and generally being nice only when she deserves it will you punish by either a neg not neg hit or active ignorance where you turn back to her or lean back from the convo uninterestedly and fail to proactively hold the convo the purpose of the rapport phase is to build trust and comfort if you have that then she will trust coming over to you house she ll feel comfortable with you and know that you wont make her feel uncomfortable many times the biggest obstacle to your success comes in the form of a i don t even know you objection this can be solved with time take the time to allow her to get to know you by building trust and comfort because she wouldnt be talking to you that long if she wasnt already attracted with rapport comfort and trust she will have no problem with dropping by your house then there are way to keep her comfortable to get her in the bedroom once on the bed or even simply on the couch in your living room under guise of continuing to buld rapport you may now phase shift to seduction mode and make a pass on her see getting a bridge made getting her or getting a location meet up should not be seen as a pass but a way to continue getting to know eachother with attraction comes a chance to build rapport with rapport comes trust to come to you seduction location her place or yours sometimes even the car ifyou agree to drive to a secluded place to park and look at the city from the hill it is only at the seduction pa ge 1 3

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location that endeavering to make her horny will then reward you with a full monty close there is only one close in this game and that s full monty the kiss close is not a close just like biting her neck or pulling her hair is not a close they are rapport tactics and the close is actually a bridge to bridge the gap of time between when you part and when you come together again so you may continue your gameplan this way you wont have any lmr although you ll have lmr tactics to what will make her feel comfort and trust with you as you penetrate her keep it up mystery pa ge 1 4

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a conversation with mystery a pick-up artist pua topics include the kiss close clubbing alone handling guys being a story-teller preparation and format quality vs quantity lego hey mystery what s your favorite story to close with how exactly do you transition from the telling of a story to closing mystery the kiss close is my favorite routine once you have three indicators of interest she touches you laughs consistantly at your jokes leans in towards you smiles a lot and keeps eye contact resumes chat when you force silence etc you then phase shift you turn 180 degrees on a dime go from humorous and non-sexual to saying stop would you like to kiss me right out of the blue she will say either say uh no which is unlikely as you don t bother performing the kiss close until enough indicators are present or i donno they rarely say yes i donno means she actually does want to but feels embarrassed on how to say yes so you reply lets find out then go in slowly and kiss her it s very simple and very effective if she says why this is also a yes simply reply it looked like you had something on your mind would you like to kiss me wait again for her response if her response is no then reply hey i didn t say you could you just had that look in your eye lego what do you do if you re interrupted you re telling your target a story and she is all into it but some afc cock-blocking idiot just runs up and starts screaming and yelling and you re like what the fuck mystery simply ask him if you can borrow his pen when he gives it to you throw it away as you say fetch wakeboarder hahaha nice lego what if he s bigger than you mystery i d instead call him on his disruptive shit and remark dude what are you attempting here not good enough then say ladies shall we discover what adventure awaits us in another room wakeboarder man none of my buds want to go to the club gamer screw them then mystery go alone wakeboarder i need to be made fun of for this comment but i feel like a weiner if i go to a club myself page 15

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